L'amour à distance avec Internet

[Candy]

Hi guys! Im sorry i have to express my self in another language for this topic cuz i wanna reply sincerely although if somebody wish so...i will try to translate it in french or malagasy...Ok i totally am against internet love why??? Cuz i've been there and trust me its hard!!!I have been with someone longdistance for quite a long time and unfortunately it had ended and i think it was for the best. Why its so hard? becuz it takes lots of trust, understanding, guts, extra love and energy, money,....so soon or later one has to give up! And in case they meet each other...its gonna be totally different cuz ur expectation has to be shattered ya trust me!!!!When you love someone without seeing them...its like living on a dream...and u know what that means soon or later u r gonna wake up or soon or later this dream is gonna transform into a nightmare!!! Anyways my point is i advice anyone who is gonna try this type of love to think carefully are u ready and do u have the patience for these? If not give up and for the curious...its better to not try it...Im not trying to be negative im just giving my opinion and what i think the best is friendship online....it can work or it always work! Take care yall!!!

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[elman]

[Anjely]

il y a pas la version candy en français ??

[elman]

la traduction donnée par tr.voila.fr est assez ... amusante

[raivo]

Is that , what you mean ?

[elman]

Pour un Paris / Tana, comment tu réduirais au maximum la distance ? Tu coupes "la poire en deux" et tout le monde se retrouve a .. djibouti par exemple ?
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[raivo]

Non je pensais plus à la Reunion, mais les possibilités peuvent etre limitées aussi.

[Candy]

haha thanx for the "webmaster" for the hilarious traduction! Ok everybody i will try my horrible french...J' ai parle mon attitude envers l' internet love que je crois sois en peu plus impossible or juste une perte de temps...Je ne suis pas aussi negative mais je l' ai vecu ce truc la et crois moi it hurts... !!! Si personne veut essayer ce genre de chose please think twice!! Est ce que vous etes pret a donner d' extra love, extra care, extra money, mais surtout extra extra trust (confiance?) between you and your loved one.Je vous dis cela car je crois que si l' amour ce fait a la distance tt les choses doit etre extra....et aussi quand on aime qlq1 loin des yeux on a d' habitude avoir une perception that this person is very much in love and when you actually meet each other its totally different (trust me) maybe not right away but after you will see!!! OK I GIVE UP THE FRENCH LOL...Can somebody please translate this I will tell you guys my personal story and i hope it helps or at least you see what i mean...I live in canada and i met this guy online in quebec but he is originally tunisian and im originally malagasy. We have been together for like 4 years now...We have tried everything to make things work...I visit him, he visits me, and everything was going perfect his parents (especially his mom) loves me and agree on our relationship...same as my parents...Although we had a lot of problems such as trust issue, money issue (the trip coming back and forth, phone cards,...) we had overcome it but one day we both knew things cant work cuz his dad want him to go back to Tunisia (they have somekind of big business there) and his dad is really getting sick! Well i was sad and desperate but still tried to make things work becuz i was desperetely in love with this guy and he does so too! For a while it was ok...but soon or later we both realize we are not going anywhere therefore we ended it!!! It hurted sooo much and i have never been that hurt all my life!!!But we both agree to just still be friends becuz we still love each other so much and also we both dont wanna loose each other...Conclusion: i realize now that yes it was a waste of time, energy, money,... and i had to wake up from that dream and i want to tell everyone to be very cautionned when trying this kind of love Hahaha c' est coome un roman eh? Thanx for those who had the time to read it and peace out! Bon courage pour les autres!!!

[elman]

[888]

The fact that you aren't together anymore has nothing to do with the long-distance relationship. You can't be together because he has to return in Tunisia. You had some wonderful moments, which was positive. Just say it had to end not cause you met on-line. You are disappointed that's why you said it is not worth trying. Just remember that every relationship happens differently.

[Sa/\/\u]

voila, je suis en relation longue distance ac une jeune fille en Tunisie depuis 2 ans. c'est vrai que les communications sont couteuses mais bon, il suffit dêtre astucieux le temps que ça s'arrangera, c'est temporaire. On s'appelle speedy ô tel une fois par semaine pour ecouter la voix son "petit coeur" et organise un rdv 120 min au chatche sur Internet. c'est aussi une question de confiance et puis si on aime, on peut faire des sacrifices .. pkoi compter?

[Candy]

Hey guys im back...thanx for all the support and all the good things ur guys have said...appreciate it and for the rest im still a little vulnerable about the relationship right now so yeah...it hurts to hear negative comments especially judgements but oh well whatever! Ummm to webmaster...i think i should make it clear to all of ur guys that ya... we met online he was in quebec im in alberta (totally east and west)...Although it was like online thing at first the relationhsip got matured so we decided to meet each other and from that time it couldnt have been real...For 888 yes i agree with u that everyone has different kind of experience and perspective on this and i also apologise if i said maybe rude things to yalll!!!But the fact that u said our relationship ended not becuz of long distance but becuz of he moved to tunisia couldnt have been the more wrong i dont wanna get into detail anymore about what happen to me but to clarify it once and for all and to make a point YES we ended it becuz of LONG DISTANCE...He moved to Tunisia becuz ya... life is a bitch sometimes and i was more than happy to move there too as long as i finish university (in 2 years) I see u guys up there talking about the more far the person u love the more difficult it is and bingo! thats exactly what i mean!!!When he moved our love for each other had increased but our trust unfortunately didnt do the same...the time, money spent, emotional stress also increased anyway maybe u can picture what happen ....Ok i kinda of regreted to share my personal stories to u guys but whatever...again thanx to yall i apologise if i offended anyone and good luck to everyone but as i stated before and will always be i dont believe anymore in this type of relationship...it had hurted me

[Fanny]

[raivo]

Quand je dis reduire la durée, je ne pense pas à quelques semaines, mais plutot autour de 5 ans ...
Il faut quand meme tenir compte du fait qu'un regroupement n'est pas facile à mettre en oeuvre.
Mais c'est vrai ca dépend de chacun.

[888]

Don't worry about it Candy. I want you the very best always. Just believe in what you feel, and everything will be ok. Go with your heart also.
Bisous.